Isabell GOATHAM

Female Abt 1837 - 1907  (~ 70 years)    Has 42 ancestors and 24 descendants in this family tree.


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  • Name Isabell GOATHAM 
    Relationshipwith Teresa Ann GOATHAM
    Born Abt 1837  Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    Baptised 12 Feb 1837  St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • From PR entry (image on FMP, viewed 18 Jun 2019)
    Gender Female 
    Occupation From 1861 to 1871 
    Dressmaker 
    Residence 1871  Mackie’s Yard, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • With her husband and 3 children.
    Residence 1881  12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • Cubison was shown as unmarried and Isabel as a widow Isabel Gillingham, although Cubison had been married (and still was, as his wife didn't die until 1905, although she seems to have had a new partner by 1881, having had a son, probably with the new partner, in 1880), and Isabel too was still married.
    Residence 1891  1, Cross Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    Residence 1901  10, Station Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    Died 1 May 1907  2, Wickham Terrace, Queenborough, Sheppey, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    Cause: Cerebral Hæmorrhage 
    • No death found in Kent with Isabel recorded with the surname Gillingham but she had been living as a Warren and was recorded as his wife when she died.
      GRO ref: WARREN, Isabel q2 1907 aged 70 Sheppey RD 2a 563
      Although she was still in Sittingbourne at the time of the 1901 census, her partner was in Queenborough on Sheppey (i.e. in Sheppey RD) by the time of the 1911 census; this death registration suggests they had moved there together between 1901 and 1907.
      (Looking for the death registration I looked on FreeBMD for Isabel* born 1830-1845, died 1881-1937, with surnames Gillingham and Warren)

      Her death certificate (GRO copy) shows the informant as her son 'J. Warren'. However, she had no son with a name beginning with 'J' (other than James who had died as a boy many years before). I think it was probably Victor, and his name / initial was mis-read when the GRO copy was made.
    Person ID I442  Teresa's tree | Descendants of George Goatham and Ann nee Winch
    Last Modified 20 Jun 2019 

    Father George GOATHAM,   b. 1800, Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location,   d. 18 Feb 1885, Bexon Lane, Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location  (Age 85 years) 
    Mother Frances RAYFIELD,   b. 1803, Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location,   d. Jun Q 1873, Milton Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location  (Age 70 years) 
    Married 12 Oct 1822  St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • Notes from M Nightingale: in the Bicknor reg, but on page headed marrs at Bredgar!
      (FreeReg shows the marriage as at Bicknor, as does FamilySearch, but they might not have noticed the heading)
    Children 9 children 
    Family ID F290    |  Family Chart

    Family 1 William Charles GILLINGHAM,   b. Dec Q 1841, Broadmayne, Dorset, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location,   d. Mar Q 1904, Canterbury Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 63 years) 
    Banns of marriage From 25 Aug 1861 to 8 Sep 1861  Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • From banns register entry (image on FMP, viewed 20 Jun 2019)
    Married 9 Sep 1861  Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    Type: Separated 
    • GRO ref: GILLINGHAM, William Charles to Goatham, Isabell or Isabel [indexed with both name spellings] q3 1861 Maidstone RD 2a 660
      Details from PR entry (image on FMP, viewed 20 Jun 2019)
      (I had date as 25 Aug from FamilySearch, but this it is now clear this was the first reading of the banns)
    Separated Bef 1881 
    • William and Isabell were living separately at the time of the 1881 census (3/4 April) and not found together in subsequent censuses.
      They appear to have separated between 1871 and 1881, probably by 1875 when Isabel seems to have had a son whose father was not William.
    Children 5 children 
    Last Modified 20 Jun 2019 
    Family ID F322    |  Family Chart

    Family 2 Cubison Stickles WARREN,   b. Abt 1844, Wye, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location,   d. 18 Oct 1924, May Tree Farm, Upper Hardres, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 80 years) 
    Married Aft 1871 
    • Between 1871 and 1881 Isabel and her husband William Gillingham separated and by 1881 Isabel was living with Cubison Warren. The Christian names of Isabel's two children born in 1875 and 1881 plus both later using the surname Warren suggest that Cubison Warren was their father, and that suggests Isabel and Cubison may have been living together by 1875.

      Cubison was also been married when he and Isabel got together. The 1871 census suggests that he had separated from his wife by then.

      Cubison and Isabel appear never to have married, although while Isabel and her children were recorded with the surname Gillingham in 1881, by the 1891 they were using the surname Warren, with Cubison and Isabel appearing as husband as wife (as they did too in 1901).
      Isabel would have been free to remarry after her husband died in 1904, and Cubison after his wife died in 1905, so there was a small window when they could legally have done so. Maybe they didn't know, maybe after 30 years of living as though married it just didn't seem worth the trouble.
    Married?
    Children 2 children 
    Last Modified 18 Jan 2019 
    Family ID F9258    |  Family Chart

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    Link to Google MapsBorn - Abt 1837 - Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsBaptised - 12 Feb 1837 - St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsBanns of marriage - From 25 Aug 1861 to 8 Sep 1861 - Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsMarried - Type: Separated - 9 Sep 1861 - Holy Cross Church, Bearsted, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsChild - George GILLINGHAM - Jun Q 1865 - Bredgar, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsChild - Isabel GILLINGHAM - Mar Q 1868 - Lower Halstow, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsChild - James GILLINGHAM - Jun Q 1870 - Borden, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsChild - Victor Warren GILLINGHAM - 31 Aug 1875 - 25, Dover Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsChild - Victor Warren GILLINGHAM - 31 Aug 1875 - 25, Dover Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsResidence - 1881 - 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsChild - Cubison Percy GILLINGHAM - 19 May 1881 - 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsChild - Cubison Percy GILLINGHAM - 19 May 1881 - 12, The Wall, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsResidence - 1901 - 10, Station Street, Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
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