Frederick John MENDAY

Male 1918 - 2000  (82 years)    Has 2 ancestors and 8 descendants in this family tree.


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  • Name Frederick John MENDAY 
    Relationshipwith Teresa Ann GOATHAM
    Born 12 Apr 1918  Milton Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • Actual date from death registration index, from the 1939 register and from his father's service record
      GRO ref: Menday, Frederick J q2 1918 mother's maiden name: Barnes, Milton RD 2a 1543; GRO online index shows middle name as John
    Gender Male 
    Died 22 Jul 2000  Canterbury Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • GRO ref: Menday, Frederick John reg Jul 2000 dob 12 Apr 1918 Canterbury RD register C7T, district / sub-d 560 1C, entry 133
    Probate 15 Aug 2000  Brighton, Sussex, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    Calendar entry 
    • From 'Find a will' website
    Person ID I6169  Teresa's tree | Descendants of George Goatham and Ann nee Winch
    Last Modified 18 Dec 2019 

    Father John MENDAY,   b. Abt May 1888, Marylebone, London, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location,   d. 29 Sep 1918, France See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 30 years) 
    Mother Henrietta Grace (“Hetty”) BARNES,   b. 29 Mar 1893, Faversham Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location,   d. 28 May 1959, 43, Briar Road, Borden, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location  (Age 66 years) 
    Married 18 Oct 1916  Register Office, Milton next Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • GRO ref: Menday, John to Barnes, Hetty q4 1916 Milton RD 2a 2227
      Actual date and place from her husband's service record 

      Hetty named the 3 sons shown as sons of John Mendy when she completed a form in his service record after John's death, and they had previously been entered in his military history sheet.  Unfortunately notes in a couple of columns adjacent to the information is unreadable (in the image, and I doubt access to the original would be permitted).
      However, I am dubious about this.
      In particular, William was born 9 Mar 1914, but I suspect John and Hetty only met after the 5th and 6th battalions set their base at Sheerness later in 1914.
      Also, John would appear to have been in India in 1913 and not around to have fathered William.
      John does seems to have been 'home' (in the UK) between 16 Oct 1914 and 23 Jun 1915 and so could have been the father of John. While John's military history sheet  gives the impression he was in Frances from 21 Oct 1916 to 5 March 1918, his casualty form shows he joined the base depot on 29 Apr 1917. However, he rejoined the battalion on 31 May, a little early to have been Frederick's biological father, although with John and Hetty now married John would have been Frederick's lawful father.
    Children 3 children 
    Family ID F4425    |  Family Chart

    Family Beatrice Florence Ray GOATHAM,   b. 1 Feb 1918, Camberwell, London, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location,   d. Sep 1998, Medway Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location  (Age 80 years) 
    Married Jun Q 1938  Register Office, Milton next Sittingbourne, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location 
    • GRO ref: Goatham, Beatrice F to Menday, Frederick J q2 1938 Milton RD 2a 3515
    Children 3 children 
    Last Modified 18 Dec 2019 
    Family ID F3577    |  Family Chart

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    Link to Google MapsBorn - 12 Apr 1918 - Milton Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsDied - 22 Jul 2000 - Canterbury Reg Dist, Kent, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
    Link to Google MapsProbate - Calendar entry - 15 Aug 2000 - Brighton, Sussex, England See the place on a map and other information about it - if available (many more will be in time); also all individuals with events at this location Link to Google Earth (if installed; see link below to install)
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