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Rebecca BLECHENDEN
Set As Default Person -
Name Rebecca BLECHENDEN Relationship 
with Teresa Ann GOATHAM Born Between 1563 and 1580 - Assuming no older than 50 when her last child was baptised not under 14 when she married John Clarke.
Gender Female Buried 29 Feb 1655/56 St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England
- From KFHS CD 19
Shows 'Mrs. Rebecca TONG', a widow, yr 1655/56
Person ID I20937 All Last Modified 23 Jan 2020
Family 1 John CLARKE, bur. 4 Nov 1603, St. Peter and St. Paul’s Church, Headcorn, Kent, England
Married 19 Aug 1594 St. Peter and St. Paul’s Church, Headcorn, Kent, England
- From transcribed data on KFHS CD 19 - shows
Johannes CLARKE married Rebecca BLECHENDEN(East Kent marr index shows John Clark to Reb Blechenden)
Suspecting Rebecca was a widow when she married Robert Barling (as Robert treated a Frances Tonge, whose previous surname I think was Clark, in the same way he treated his own married daughters and named her after them before other bequests) I looked for a possible marriage.
I looked at all marriages in Kent 1584-1604 of a Clark & variants to a Rebecca (& variants) on FMP on 28 Mar 2016 (includes East Kent Marriage index, all KFHS CDs produced by then and FamilySearch). This was the only one to match and was in Headcorn, a likely location for a wife of Robert Barling to have been living.
Children2 children Last Modified 23 Jan 2020 Family ID F8282 Family Group Page | Family Chart
Family 2 Robert BARLING, b. Est 1548, d. 1627, Iwade, Kent, England
(Age ~ 79 years)
Other Partners: Margaret BRISSENDEN m. 27 Jun 1576Married 20 Aug 1604 All Saints’ Church, Ulcombe, Kent, England
- From East Kent marriage index (on FMP, viewed 28 Mar 2016), shows Reb Clark married Robert Barling.
Tyler's notebook (image on Ancestry, viewed 29 Mar 2016), shows Robert BARLING marr Rebecka CLARK
Children5 children Last Modified 23 Jan 2020 Family ID F8281 Family Group Page | Family Chart
Family 3 Nicholas TONGE, bap. 3 Oct 1573, St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England
, bur. 25 Aug 1642, St. John the Baptist Church, Bredgar, Kent, England
(Age ~ 68 years)
Other Partners: Alice m. 19 Feb 1598/99Marriage License 16 Jul 1635 Canterbury, Kent, England
- "Tonge, Nicholas, of Frinstead, g., widr.,
and Rebecca Barlinge of Borden, w.
of Robert Barling. late dec. At
Borden. Jacobus Tonge of Bredgar.
g., and Thomas Thacher of Holling-
bourne, g., bonds. July 16, 1635."
(James Tonge was probably Rebecca's son-in-law; Thomas Thacher the son-in-law of Nicholas).
Married 6 Aug 1635 St. Peter and St. Paul’s Church, Borden, Kent, England
- From transcribed data on KFHS CD 21
Shows Nicholas TONG widower, gent, of Frinstead married Rebecca BARLING, widow, widow of Robt; married by Licence
Last Modified 5 Apr 2016 Family ID F8312 Family Group Page | Family Chart

