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![Nicholas John Gotham TARR, [G-D(TM)]](img/male.jpg)
Nicholas John Gotham TARR, [G-D(TM)]
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Name Nicholas John Gotham TARR Suffix [ONS gp] [G-D(TM)] Relationship 
with Teresa Ann GOATHAM Born 20 Nov 1823 Fore Street, West Teignmouth, Devon, England
- From the Registry of Births kept at Dr. Williams's Library in London
The date and place are confirmed by two people present at the birth - Elizabeth Gotham "Grandmother to the Child" and William Cartright, of West Teignmouth, a Surgeon.
Baptised 28 Dec 1823 Zion Chapel, Teignmouth, Devon, England
- Img on FMP
Gender Male Residence 1841 West Teignmouth, Devon, England
- With his parents and siblings at the time of the census, no occupation shown.
Residence 1851 6, Church Street, Greenwich, Kent, England
- Nicholas and Charlotte were together in 1851, with their young son and baby daughter Mary. Presumably due to Mary being aged just 2 months a nurse was also present, as well as a 16 year old general servant.
Occupation 1851 Draper Crime 2 Feb 1860 Exeter, Devon, England
Charged for deserting wife and 5 children - The City of Exeter Police Charge Book Index for June 1859 - December 1862 shows that Nicholas was charged with an offence:
'Page No 48, Name: Tarr, Nich John Gotham, Where born: Exeter, Trade: draper ass'nt'
(entry on GENUKI)
The charge book itself shows that he was arrested at 9pm on 2nd February on a warrant signed by H Hooper Esqr. for deserting his wife and five children. He was charged by Daniel Filden, the Releiving Officer, who took him into custody, where he was charge by G Guppy, the Inspector.
He had on him £1-3-0 which was given to his wife.
The Magistrate before whom the charge was brought was Mr Hooper, and Nicholas was committed for three months hard labour.
(from Charges Book in the Exeter City Archives collection in the DHC)
Middle name relationship Gotham: his mother's maiden name - In naming him his father's Christian name was combined with his mother's maiden surname.
Residence 1871 29, Peter Street, Bath, Somerset, England
- One of a number of households at this address. In Nicholas' household was Charlotte, who he was to marry later in the year but already shown as his wife, and 4 'Tarr' children who I suspect were theirs together.
Occupation 1871 Unemployed shopman Residence 1881 2, Brookleaze Buildings, Walcot, Bath, Somerset, England
- With his second wife Charlotte and their 3 youngest children
Occupation 1881 Commission agent Died Jun Q 1884 Bath Reg Dist, Somerset, England
- GRO ref: TARR, Nicholas aged 60 Bath 5c 444
No middle names or initials, but the age is right and the place agrees with where Nicholas was living at the time of the 1881 census
Siblings2 brothers and 5 sisters Patriarch & Matriarch 
Notes - (Research):It is clear there is a different Nicholas Tarr of a similar age, a seaman born Devonport
Person ID I300418 All | All in the Goatham / Gotham One-Name Study , All subjects of the Goatham / Gotham One-Name Study Last Modified 9 Mar 2024
Father Nicholas Stambury TARR, b. Abt 1791, Ilsington, Devon, England
, d. 24 Sep 1859, Ashburton, Devon, England
(Age ~ 68 years) Mother Mary Wilking GOTHAM, b. Abt 1794, Teignmouth, Devon, England
, d. Mar Q 1876, Cheltenham Reg Dist, Gloucestershire, England
(Age ~ 82 years) Married 21 Jan 1822 St. James’ Church, West Teignmouth, Devon, England
- From DFHS index; no marrs in the parish on FMP after 1812, though banns from Nov 1823 on.
Details from BT entry (image on FamilySearch, viewed 9 Oct 2016)
"Nicholas Stambury Tarr of this Parish
Tailor
and Mary Wilking Gotham of this Parish
Spinster
were married in this Church by Banns with Consent of
this twenty first Day of
January in the Year one Thousand eight Hundred and twenty two
By me J. Salter Curate
This Marriage was solemnized between us Nicholas Stambury Tarr, Mary Wilking Gotham
In the Presence of Elizabeth Gotham, Nathaniel Gotham, G Daimond
No. 116"
Family ID F300087 Family Group Page | Family Chart
Family 1 Charlotte JORDAN, b. Abt 1816, Norwich, Norfolk, England
, d. 18 May 1908, Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
(Age ~ 92 years) Married Mar Q 1848 St. Luke Reg Dist, Middlesex, England
- GRO ref: TARR, Nicholas John to JORDAN, Charlotte q1 1848 St Luke RD 2 232
Children5 children Last Modified 14 Feb 2017 Family ID F300822 Family Group Page | Family Chart
Family 2 Charlotte BURGESS, b. Abt 1831, Witheridge, Devon, England
, d. Sep Q 1905, Bath Reg Dist, Somerset, England
(Age ~ 74 years) Married Dec Q 1871 Bath Reg Dist, Somerset, England
- GRO ref: Tarr, Nicholas John G to BURGESS, Charlotte q4 1871 Bath RD 5c 1198 (from FreeBMD)
Probably a Register Office marriage (p. 1173 was for a marriage on 25 Dec at Walcot St Swithin, p. 1206 was for a Register Office or Non-conformist (Registrar present) marriage (page info. from the Guild of One-Name Studies Marriage Index).
I am assuming the children shown with Nicholas and Charlotte in the 1871 and 1881 censuses are theirs. Although all born before they married, the births were all registered as 'Tarrs'. Nicholas had deserted his family about 1860, and was not with them in 1861 or 1871, so I doubt they were children of that marriage. Given the first of the four was given the name Burgess as a Christian name, the surname of Charlotte who Nicholas married in 1871, points strongly to them being their children together.
If Nicholas had had the children with another Burgess e.g. a sister of Charlotte, would expect to find Charlotte as sister-in-law or housekeeper in 1871, not wife (when not actually married). Being shown as wife suggests they may have been living as man and wife for sometime.
Nicholas' first wife was still living when he married Charlotte, so it is not clear why after living together as though man and wife for some years they decided to marry bigamously. Maybe he had not heard from her for a sufficient period that he felt it safe to do so.
Children4 children Last Modified 14 Aug 2023 Family ID F300150 Family Group Page | Family Chart
- From the Registry of Births kept at Dr. Williams's Library in London
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Born - 20 Nov 1823 - Fore Street, West Teignmouth, Devon, England 


Residence - 1841 - West Teignmouth, Devon, England 


Child - Mary Eleanor TARR - Mar Q 1851 - Greenwich, Kent, England 


Child - Emma Maria TARR - Jun Q 1859 - Exeter, Devon, England 


Crime - Charged for deserting wife and 5 children - 2 Feb 1860 - Exeter, Devon, England 


Child - Albert Harry Burgess TARR - Sep Q 1862 - Bath, Somerset, England 


Child - Charlotte TARR - 23 Mar 1864 - Bath, Somerset, England 


Child - William Arthur TARR - 14 Aug 1866 - Bath, Somerset, England 


Child - Bessie Grace Eliza TARR - 23 Feb 1869 - Bath, Somerset, England 


Married - Dec Q 1871 - Bath Reg Dist, Somerset, England 


Residence - 1881 - 2, Brookleaze Buildings, Walcot, Bath, Somerset, England 


Died - Jun Q 1884 - Bath Reg Dist, Somerset, England 

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